Saturday, May 14, 2011

Carolyn Hax: Avoiding relationship scorekeeping; dating the ?fun, crazy girl?

Adapted from a recent online discussion.

Oh dear, no ? that?s scorekeeping, which corrodes relationships. Sentences that start with, ?If you loved me, you?d .?.?.�? are emotional threats.

The best way to address conflicting needs is to put them in context. If you?ve been sick or busy and you?ve looked forward to this night at home with your husband, then he tells his buddies he?ll see them another night. Or, if your husband is due some he-time or if his buddies don?t gather often, then you suck it up and hope he has a great time.

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